Your hands sweat,your heart skips and your voice seems to be gone?
That's not love...that's being nervous
You simply can't take your eyes or hands away from him?
That's not love...that's lust
You feel proud that you are with him?
That's not love...that's luck
Do you love that person because he is always there?
That's not love...that's loneliness
Are you by his side because you know that that's what that person wants?
That's not love...that's loyalty
Are you by his side because he shows that he cares or takes your hand?
That's not love...that's trust
Do you stand by his side because he says that he loves you and you don't want to hurt him?
That's not love...that's pity
Do you forgive his mistakes because you care about him?
That's not love...that's friendship
Do you tell him that he is the only thing in your mind every moment of the day and night?
That's not love...that's a lie
Are you willing to resign to all your material things fot that person?
That's not love...that's charity
Then...
When are you really in love?
When...
...the sadness from his eyes makes you suffer
...his sorrow,even if he is strong makes you cry
...his are eyes are capable to see your soul and touch it so deeply that it hurts
it's a blind and incomprehensible attraction leads you to him,leaving aside those people that you're only physically attracted to...
But if that's love...why do we love?
Why is love the thing we want the most in this life?
That pain,taht torture...that agony...
Why do we vehemently wish to be in love?
The answer in quite simple...when your love is corresponded,you don't feel any pain,torture or agony.
You don't imagine your life without that person,when you are not by his side the only thought about him can make you smile
when he takes or simply touches your hand you get such confidence that you are capable to conquer the world!!!
To know that person by your side makes you dream about your future,it fills your life with hope
That mixture of feelings is LOVE
It makes you live with such emotion that it becomes addictive...and when you lose it,like any addiction,it leaves you empty,it tortures you...
Those who have lost it know that's true,that's why we keep dreaming about the moment it finds it's way back into our lves again!
We start to love not when we find the perfect person,but when we learn to see perfectly an imperfect person...That' LOVE!!!!