_Bill_und_Tom_, Well..I don`t know what to tell u...i`m not tom,not your relative...idon`t know what to advise u...but just leave him alone...he`d better have a rest or smthing...that`s all i can tell...ok?
friends can't just go away...if it is really friend, he'll come back...
and to know, what happens with Tom, you'd better to talk with him. only it will be right.