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"There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you, let them walk. I dont want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, stayingattached to you. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left. The Bible said that, They came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1John 2:19] People leave you because they are not joined to you. And, if they are not joined to you, you cant make them stay. Let them go.
And it doesnt mean that they are a bad person, it just means that their part in the story is over. And youve got to know when peoples part in your story is over so that you dont keep trying to raise the dead. Youve got to know when its dead. Youve got to know when its over.
Let me tell you something. Ive got the gift of goodbye. Its the tenth spiritual gift. I believe in goodbye. Its not that Im insensitive or uncaring, its that I trust. I know whatever and whomever God means for me to have and be a part of my life He will give. And, if a relationship takes too much sweat I dont need it. Stop begging people to stay. Let them go!"
